Introduction: Making Your Kitty Party Special
There's something special about a kitty party — the laughter, the gossip, the shared stories, the fun, and the warmth of friendship. What began decades ago as a modest home gathering has today transformed into a full-fledged celebration of sisterhood and style.
But what really elevates a kitty party from "just another get-together" to a memorable, Instagram-worthy occasion is the theme. A great theme sets the vibe, informs décor, guides dress code, and shapes the mood for games, food and fun. If you want your next kitty party to be talked about for months — we've got you covered. Here are 10 creative and trendy kitty party themes that will turn your Ladies' Day into an unforgettable celebration.
🎯 Why Themes Matter for Kitty Parties
A theme does more than just add a decorative layer — it:
- Unifies the décor, dress code and vibe so your party looks cohesive and stylish.
- Makes it easier for guests to get excited and participate wholeheartedly (especially with dress-ups!).
- Creates fantastic photo opportunities and memories.
- Helps you plan food, games and décor in an integrated, creative way.
1. Retro Bollywood Night
- Dress Code: Think '70s/'80s glamour — polka dots, bell-bottoms, saris with bold prints, retro hairstyles and big jhumkas.
- Décor: Use film-poster style wall hangings, vinyl records, film-reel motifs, bright curtains, and retro lighting.
- Food & Drinks: Go for fun Bollywood-styled snacks — "Sholay Samosas", "Dilwale Dhoklas" — and colourful mocktails.
- Activities: Host a fun "Bollywood Tambola" (numbers replaced by iconic movie dialogues), retro dance-offs, or karaoke of classic songs.
A dreamy choice if your group loves nostalgia and filmi flair.
2. Masquerade / Glam Night
- Dress Code: Elegant dresses or gowns paired with chic masquerade masks; think glam, mystery, sophistication.
- Décor: Dim lights, string lights or fairy lights, candles, rich fabrics (velvet, satin), feathers, glitter, and elegant table décor.
- Food & Drinks: Sophisticated finger foods, mocktails served in classy glassware, dessert bites — think "chic soirée" vibes.
- Activities: Secret gift exchange, "who's behind the mask" quiz, slow-music dance, or a photo-booth corner for glamour shots.
A perfect theme for a classy, chic, and slightly mysterious ladies' evening.
3. Spa & Pamper Day
- Dress Code: Comfy robes or lounge wear, slippers or cushy footwear — keep it relaxed and cozy.
- Décor: Soothing colours like pastels, lots of cushions and throws, scented candles or incense, fairy lights, aromatic diffusers, soft music background.
- Food & Drinks: Healthy snacks — fruit platters, smoothies, herbal teas, mocktails — something light and refreshing.
- Activities: DIY face masks, mani-pedi stations, relaxing music, guided meditation or wellness talk, secrets-sharing circle.
Ideal for groups who want a chill, relaxing get-together where conversation and bonding take centre stage.
4. Beach / Tropical Summer Party
- Dress Code: Light, summery outfits — boho dresses, flowy skirts, tropical prints. Add sunglasses, floral accessories, straw hats for extra fun.
- Décor: Think palm-leaf prints, tropical flower garlands, seashells, fairy lights, vibrant colours (turquoise, coral, yellow), beach-style props (surfboards, floaties, beach balls).
- Food & Drinks: Fresh fruit platters, sliders, finger-food, tropical mocktails (like coconut water cocktails, fruit punch).
- Activities: Limbo dance, fun photo-booth with beach props, tropical trivia, or a "best beach-look" contest.
A perfect pick if you want summer vibes even indoors — fun, bright, cheerful and relaxed.
5. Childhood / "Back-to-School" Throwback Party
- Dress Code: Old-school uniforms or outfits reminiscent of your school days — pinafores, skirts, shirts, ponytails, ribbons, glasses.
- Décor: Blackboard-style signboards, old school books, paper-chain decorations, nostalgic posters/photos, pastel colours, school props (slate chalkboard, old-textbooks, lunch-boxes).
- Food & Drinks: Retro snacks — choco bars, sandwiches, milkshakes, cookies — things that remind you of your school recess.
- Activities: "Moment of memories" session — sharing old school stories, nostalgia-quiz, fun "homework challenge", karaoke of childhood songs.
This theme brings back the warmth of old friendships and memories — emotional, playful, and full of laughs.
6. Floral / Garden Party
- Dress Code: Light floral prints, pastel dresses or kurtis, flowy fabrics — think fresh, breezy, and feminine.
- Décor: Flower garlands, vases with fresh flowers, soft drapes in pastel shades, fairy lights, minimal and elegant décor.
- Food & Drinks: Tea-time snacks — finger sandwiches, cookies, cupcakes with floral icing, mocktails in pastel shades.
- Activities: Flower-crown making station, tea/coffee & chat, picture-taking corner, casual games or memory-sharing sessions.
Perfect for a calm, elegant, sunshine-filled gathering — especially lovely in spring or early summer.
7. Disco / 90s Party
- Dress Code: Retro 70s/90s outfits — glitter, sequins, bell bottoms, funky jewellery, neon shades.
- Décor: Disco lighting (LED, fairy lights, mirror balls if possible), bold colour balloons, shiny drapes, retro posters.
- Food & Drinks: Colourful drinks/mocktails, finger foods, snack platters, themed cupcakes, maybe even a mini "mocktail bar".
- Activities: Dance-off, retro music playlist, fun lip-sync contests, dance-based games, photo-booth with funky props.
A high-energy option — perfect if your group is lively, loves music, and dancing is their favourite pastime.
8. Fashion Show / Glam-Walk Party
- Dress Code: Stylish dresses, elegant makeup, glam accessories — it's your very own runway night.
- Décor: Red carpet or faux runway setup (a cleared corridor or living-room strip with rugs), spotlight-style lighting, minimalist but classy décor, photo-booth area.
- Food & Drinks: Chic finger foods, gourmet mocktails, stylish plating, small desserts — think "boutique café meets living room."
- Activities: Runway walk, best-dressed contest, mini-photoshoot sessions, fashion-related games (style quiz, styling challenge, etc.).
This theme works wonderfully if your group is fashion-forward and loves dressing up.
9. Spa Slumber & Movie Night
- Dress Code: Pajamas / robes / comfy loungewear, slippers, minimal makeup — cozy and relaxed.
- Décor: Soft cushions, blankets, fairy lights, low lighting, popcorn/buffet table, cozy corners for lounging.
- Food & Drinks: Popcorn, nachos, soft drinks or mocktails, chocolates, finger-food — movie-night staples.
- Activities: Watch a fun movie or throwback classic, gossip session, spa-masks, board games, casual chats.
A warm, comforting vibe — perfect when you want laid-back fun, bonding, and relaxation all in one.
10. Theme-Color Party (e.g. Black & White / Pastel / Neon)
- Dress Code: Everyone dresses in a predetermined colour palette or theme — e.g. all black & white, or pastels, or neon.
- Décor: Match décor colours with dress code — balloons, streamers, table cloths, napkins, etc. Minimal yet striking.
- Food & Drinks: Themed food presentation — cupcakes with matching shades, colour-coordinated mocktails, monochrome plating or pastel treats.
- Activities: Colour-based photo booth, "best dressed in theme colour" contest, simple games, group photos, social media sharing for memories.
An easy-to-execute but elegant option — and great if you want uniformity with minimal planning effort.
✅ How to Choose the Best Theme for Your Kitty Party
Here are some tips to help you decide which theme suits your group:
- Group vibe: Are you a relaxed, cozy bunch or fun & energetic? Choose accordingly — Spa / Slumber for comfort, Disco / Fashion-Show for high-energy fun.
- Budget & effort: Some themes (like Masquerade, Fashion Show) require more effort and décor investment; some (like Colour-theme or Spa) are simpler but effective.
- Space/venue constraints: If you're hosting at home or small apartment — themes like Spa, Colour-theme, or Retro are easier. For larger venues or lounges — Disco or Fashion Show themes work great.
- Guest preferences: Consider what your friends enjoy — dancing, chatting, chilling, dressing up, games, nostalgia. Pick a theme matching those preferences.
- Time of day & season: For day events — Floral or Beach themes. For night get-togethers — Disco, Masquerade, Fashion Show.
💡 How Shubhvite Can Help You Plan Your Kitty Party
When you're organising a themed kitty party, a lot of logistics can become overwhelming — invitations, RSVPs, guest-management, reminders, and tracking gifts or contributions (if your kitty functions as a savings/pot party).
That's where Shubhvite shines:
- Generate beautiful digital invitations (with theme-appropriate designs) and send them to your group instantly.
- Track RSVPs easily so you know exactly who's coming and who's not.
- Manage guest lists, reminders, gift contributions — especially handy if you rotate hosting or pool resources.
- Keep everything organised and stress-free so you focus on fun, not logistics.
If you're new to Shubhvite — check out the "Create an Invitation" section and pick a template that matches your party theme.
📋 Kitty Party Planning Checklist
Before you finalize — here's a quick checklist to make sure your kitty party goes off without a hitch:
- Finalize the theme & dress code
- Send invites (preferably digital) + track RSVPs (use Shubhvite!)
- Plan décor & props according to theme
- Decide food & drinks (snacks / mocktails / menu)
- Plan activities/games/photo-booth or music
- Arrange seating, lighting, and setup
- Capture memories — photos, candid moments — and share with the group
- Clean-up and thank-you notes (optional but lovely)
✨ Final Thoughts
Your next kitty party doesn't have to be "just another get-together." With a creative theme, thoughtful planning, and a little bit of magic — you can transform it into a special celebration where friends laugh, bond, dress up, and create memories.
Whether you're leaning towards a glam Masquerade night, a laid-back Spa afternoon, a nostalgic Childhood throwback or a high-energy Disco bash — pick a theme that suits your group's vibe and go for it! And when you're ready to send out invitations, track guests, and manage everything seamlessly — don't forget to use Shubhvite.
Here's to laughter, friendship, and unforgettable kitty parties! 🥂
Frequently Asked Questions
A kitty party is traditionally a monthly gathering of women who pool in some money every month (the "kitty") and normally one member takes the kitty each month. But over time, kitty parties have also become social gatherings — a chance for friends to meet, bond, share, gossip, enjoy, and celebrate.
Not necessarily! While that was the original intent, many modern kitty parties — especially among younger or urban women — are simply social get-togethers where money pooling doesn't come into play. The emphasis is on friendship, fun, and shared experiences.
Yes — though kitty parties were traditionally for women, modern variations sometimes include couples or mixed-gender groups, depending on the group's comfort level and vibe.
It depends on your group. Anywhere between 6–20 people works well. Smaller groups make it intimate and cosy; larger groups bring more energy and fun. What matters most is the enthusiasm and bonding.
Not at all. Some themes like Fashion Show, Masquerade or Disco might require more décor and effort. But many themes (like Colour-theme, Spa, Floral, Childhood throwback) can be done on a modest budget with creativity.
For a smooth kitty party — especially a themed one — it's best to start planning 2–3 weeks ahead. This gives time for invites, RSVPs, décor procurement, menu decisions, and role-assignments (if any).